Casting Call & Private Executive Coaching
The Only Clinically-Proven Methodology
in the Industry Come Together
with Dr. Saida & Aaron Michael
Solving the Orgasm Gap Sex Coaching for Women, Men, and Couples
Nervous-System & Trauma Informed
Closing the Orgasm Gap
"Healing, intimacy, and transformation led by two of the world's foremost experts."
DR. SAIDA DÉSILETS & AARON MICHAEL, MA
Trusted By & Featured In
"Too many people live in the numb zone, going through the motions, but missing the connection that once came naturally."
The Come Together show is where real healing begins: where you move from disconnection to desire, from performance to presence, and from silence to sensation.
THIS IS NOT REALITY TV
This is reality. Healing, intimacy, and transformation, led by two of the world's foremost experts in embodied sexuality and nervous system-based intimacy work.
LIVE BODY-BASED INTIMACY COACHING
Filmed with care, consent, and clinical integrity.
The Methodology
Why Apply to The Come Together Show
This is an exclusive opportunity to experience live, body-based intimacy coaching with Dr. Saida Désilets and Aaron Michael. Two of the world's leading experts in embodied sexuality and trauma-informed connection.
NO SCRIPTS. NO SHOCK FACTOR.
Just real people, real intimacy challenges, and real breakthroughs—filmed with care, consent, and clinical integrity.
You'll Walk Away With
A deeper connection to your own body
Tangible tools to rebuild trust and ignite pleasure
Renewed confidence and curiosity in your relationship
A felt sense of safety, intimacy, and freedom
"This isn't about performing better in bed. It's about remembering how to feel again... together."
Casting & Applicants
Who We're Looking For
We're casting single women, single men, and couples of all orientations who are ready to explore what real connection feels like.
"This is where things get real: Healing, intimacy, and transformation, led by two of the world's foremost experts in embodied sexuality and nervous system-based intimacy work."
Ideal candidates include:
Couples in their 40s who love each other but feel distant or disconnected
Men struggling with control or confidence during intimacy
Partners craving deeper, more authentic connection
Women navigating low libido, desire or painful sex
Anyone healing from porn or vibrator addiction
If you have tried therapy, read the books, gone to the workshops, and still feel stuck — this is your moment to be seen, guided, and supported in a way you've never experienced before.
Transformation & Breakthroughs
What You'll Experience
From Dr. Saida & Aaron's method, the only clinically proven framework that bridges relational, emotional and sexual connection.
You'll Learn How
Breathe through tension and transform pain into sensation
Reconnect with your partner through attunement, not technique
Redefine what good sex truly means for you
Feel confident in your own body again
Bring play, curiosity, and safety back to intimacy
"This isn't about performing better in bed. It's about remembering how to feel again... together."
"Attunement, safety, and felt sense of sexual freedom."
World-Renowned Experts
Meet Your Guides
Co-founders of Embodied Love University and pioneers of the clinically-proven Inhale Push™ methodology.
PSYCHOSEXUAL EXPERT
Co-Founder & PsychoSexual Expert
Dr. Saida Désilets
is the originator of the Embodied PsychoSexual Method, a medically-endorsed approach integrating neural re-patterning, trauma transcendence, and sexual reclamation.
TEDx Speaker | Neural Re-Patterning | Author of DESIRE
"Integrating neural re-patterning, trauma transcendence, and erotic reclamation for all bodies."
INTIMACY PIONEER
Co-Founder & Intimacy Pioneer
Aaron Michael, MA
is the creator of the SuctionSex® Method, a revolutionary practice rooted in penetrative healing, intimacy restoration, and sensory intelligence.
MA Somatic Psychology | SuctionSex® Creator | Optimal Sex Life Author
"Rooted in penetrative healing, intimacy restoration, and sensory intelligence."
50+ Years Combined Expertise
Changing the Global Conversation Around Sex & Intimacy
Dr. Saida Désilets and Aaron Michael, MA are changing the global conversation around sex, intimacy, and embodied transformation. As co-founders of Embodied Love University & their clinically proven tool 'Inhale Push', they bring a combined 50+ years of research, clinical insight, and somatic practice to a field that has long prioritized performance over feeling, and technique over truth.
With backgrounds spanning neuropsychology, semiotics, somatics, and sex coaching, their work centers the body as the place where all intimacy begins. They help people return to their own pulse, reclaim their erotic sovereignty, and finally resolve what talk therapy and surface-level solutions could not.
Clinical Distinction & Legacy
Embodied Love University
Founders of Embodied Love University
Pioneered global somatic intimacy education serving thousands of students worldwide.
20+ Transformation Protocols
Created comprehensive self-paced transformation courses for men, women, and couples.
Published Co-Authors
Published groundbreaking books on sexual reclamation and body-based neural re-patterning.
TEDx & Keynote Speakers
Delivered acclaimed global talks on overcoming sexual numbness and nervous system safety.
50+ Years Combined Research
Integrating neuropsychology, trauma transcendence, clinical sexology, and somatic healing.
Developers of Inhale Push™
Restoring the heart-pelvis connection and closing the orgasm gap for all bodies.
"Together, they dismantle outdated scripts and offer a grounded, clinically credible path to wholeness."
They created Inhale Push, a nervous-system-based practice that restores the heart-pelvis connection, closing the so-called 'orgasm gap' for all bodies and orientations.
This isn't mindset work. It's body work. This isn't about performing better in bed. It's about remembering how to feel again... together.
Literary Works & Research
Published
Read the foundational texts written by Dr. Saida Désilets & Aaron Michael, MA
DR. SAIDA DÉSILETS
DESIRE
Reclaiming Your Sexual Sovereignty
A foundational work mapping the journey from libido suppression to ecstatic body presence and organic sensual aliveness.
AARON MICHAEL, MA
OPTIMAL SEX LIFE
An Exercise Book for De-Armoring & Neo-Tantric Sex
Practical somatic exercises and de-armoring protocols for men and couples looking to transcend performance pressure.
SAIDA DÉSILETS, PH.D.
EMERGENCE OF THE SENSUAL WOMAN
Awakening Our Erotic Innocence
Medically endorsed guide to shedding generational shame and awakening female vitality through cellular-level presence.
Listen & Subscribe
Embodied Love Lounge Podcast
HOSTS DR. SAIDA DÉSILETS & AARON MICHAEL, MA
Weekly Episodes & Deep Dives
Embodied Love Lounge
Changing the way the world makes love.
Available On: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube
Featured Audio Episodes
Dr. Saida & Aaron Michael • 48 min
Episode 42: De-armoring the Pelvic Floor & Closing the Orgasm Gap
How somatic holding patterns affect physical pleasure and how nervous system safety creates spontaneous orgasm.
Dr. Saida & Aaron Michael • 52 min
Episode 41: Why Technique Fails When Intimacy Is Missing
Dismantling performance anxiety, porn conditioning, and reconnecting with authentic emotional resonance.
Application Process
How to Apply
1
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Fill out a short, confidential application.
2
Share Your Story
Tell us where you're feeling stuck or what you want to heal.
3
Show Up Open
No preparation required. Just honesty, willingness, and curiosity.
All filming takes place in a safe, respectful environment guided by consent, compassion, and professionalism.
Are You Ready To Come Together?
The difference between couples who drift apart and those who rediscover each other is willingness to feel again.
You've done the work. You've talked about it. Now it's time to experience it.
"Come Together and remember what connection was always meant to be."
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